This is why therapy is so critical for our survival. I'm not trying to be poetic when I say critical. What's the point of life if you're not even living? You’re taught how to walk, you're taught how to speak, you're taught how to write and read. When it comes to working through the things that prevent you from happiness, you're left to your own devices.
I would venture to say that everyone has someone they can work well with! Just think about this, if someone can work with Morrissey and make the incredible band The Smiths, objectively Morrissey's best work, then you can stand to work with a few different people and see what you can come up with together!
How to not be late. Can it really be that simple? Not sure how long it takes to get somewhere? Open google maps (**** apple maps, Steve Job's ghost gives terrible directions) see how long it takes to get to your destination and add fifteen minutes.