There are PLENTY of places you can pitch your press. Think outside your circles into international waters, baby! If you don't know what your local press looks like, it's time to figure that out. It's as easy as searching Google or Instagram. They're not trying to hide from you, you just have to look through all the garbage out there.
If you notice a lack of professionalism in somebody and you keep using that person and getting frustrated, that is not on them that is on you.